Make love to her so she comes before you even start! - Charmm

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Wednesday 27 December 2017

Make love to her so she comes before you even start!

  

Sex. Sex. Sex. The second most precious thing one can have besides PlayStation4 and a 42inch Samsung TV in my room and unlimited internet. For some really rugged dudes out there, it may even top their list. 

But alot of guys frustrate the he'll outta their women by leaving 90% of the vast hectare of arable female arousal land intact. They just slid right in, jab like dogs and vibrate like electrocuted rhinoceroses a millisecond later. 


Poor me
But as a charmmaker, among other things, you MUST be a freak under the sheets. Imagine the disappointment to you, your lady, God, me and every seduction adviser you've ever listened to if after charming the living sh** outta her and leading things well outdoors, she realizes you were all talk and couldn't even stir one hyperactive sex cell in her in the bedroom. I'd kill you. 

Knowing that for women, pleasurable sex is 1million light years from a solely physical activity and her pleasure engines need time and concerted effort to fire and rock,  you've got to start finding ways to reach her core physically, emotionally and mentally. But after the inner sex beast has been unleashed, the result is a girl who will never leave your side.

Unleashing her beast
1. Relax her nerves:
  

 Women can quickly and arbitrarily switch into 1,000,000,000,000,000 distinct moods a day! If she's mad, sad, disappointed, tired, irritated etc, sex ain't gonna happen or it ain't gonna mean much if it does. So first, ask your better half how she feels at the moment and make that feeling even more sexific by doing stuff that are relaxing for her. Talk about her fav soap opera, go on a walk, grab coffee, remind her that you're wearing your lucky boxers, reaffirm your affection for her, commend her and ultimately, make her laugh. That's how passionate sex begins for women. 

2. Talk dirty

She's game
When you notice how lit and upbeat your lady has become, it is usually now safe to infuse more sexual undertones into the atmosphere. Compliment her not so sexual body parts like her hair, eyes, lips etc as you advance to hotter parts like her curves, boobs, ass etc. Tell her how much they interfere with your sanity. Tell her what you would love to do with them and to them while you hold a strong and passionate gaze on her so she feels the passion in your eyes caressing her skin. 

3. Kiss her like it's the last time:

 If your girl's really got any feelings for you that are even a lil beyond platonic, then by now the juices should've begun flowing in all the right places. You should now plainly see signs she wants a kiss. Go for it. Kiss her like a pro. Immerse yourself self in each episode as it unfolds and don't let your mind fast forward to when both your warm and naked bodies tingle while glued together in pleasure. Show her that the kiss and whatever is needed to take her to the promised land is what you are dedicated to. Not your own pleasure. 

3. Let your hands wander:

Don't just stand and kiss like mirror reflections of each other. Put those hands to honourable use and gently caress all her hotspots(lol): ears and back of ears, side and back of neck, her cheeks and jawbones, spine trail, her ribs, her inner thighs, her butt and virtually ever nook and cranny of her angelic body. You can keep Mr South in his place for now. Your hands can also gradually find their way beneath her clothes to her belly button, lower back, breasts as she charges up. 

4. Peel her clothes slow:
Keep on the good work
 Most guys literally tear off their ladies clothes like the carton of a new PS4. Well, unless your woman was really in the cave mood and her libido seemed higher than the empire state building, it's better not to be hasty this once in your life while separating her flesh from her clothing. Slowly and sensually give attention to each breadth of her skin as you pull her clothes away to reveal them. Let you mouth and/or tongue kiss each sweat pore as it's covering is pulled away. 

5. Creative and passionate foreplay:

 Foreplay is really any act of arousal between you two in the absence of actual penetration. So utilize her assets. Tease, caress and arouse her boobs. The area under her boobs just above her ribs can be very oooh la la. Caress her boobs in circular motions around the areola and nipples and let your dry lips do the same. Avoid her nipples at first and just blow warm air on them or ever so tenderly brush your arms hair on them. You could also rub menthol over them for a sensationally intoxicating effect. Don't let any bit of skin go unaroused. 

6. Finishing touches:

Girl's erogenous zones
 Foreplay can go on unending even till she comes. That's a plus. It's always better to wait till she's orgasmed or close before penetrating. That way, she gets to come before you. You should strive to make her come first because women can have so many orgasms(multiple) unlike men who coming means game over. So when you do penetrate, don't go thrusting straight in and out like a hammer hitting a nail. Instead, use circular motions as you thrust and/or thrust diagonally to his her vaginal walls as you thrust. It's more sensual for her than thrusting straight in and out. You should also try these creative positions.


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