Be the god of foreplay she tells her friends about

For women, sex is not and cannot really be sex without artful foreplay. Simply penetrating 2 seconds after both of you get to the bedroom or wherever and behaving like a chainsaw won't satisfy her nearly as much as it would you. It'll only leave her feeling unsatisfied, frustrated and loathed and she won't look forward to slipping beneath the sheets with you. 

Why women need foreplay
Women need to connect totally with their man for sex to matter. She wants to bond with her man in the fullest extent possible. She wants him to arouse every single cell in her body. She doesn't want to hold back any facet of her entire being. So, unless you have a 5ft dick, you can never thrust all the way to her heart and achieve all this connections via penetration alone. 

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Boy and girl playing on bed

So while you can and will come through thrusting alone because arousal and pleasure for you are all defined in physical terms, great and fulfilling sex for women is a mental process.

So foreplay should be used and designed to reach her mental awareness. You must build as much inner desire and connection as possible. 

These are the best things to do to reach the core of your woman through foreplay. 

1. Use your voice: Girls have highly developed hearing and can accurately tell a person's feelings through their voice. Then she'd immediately feel the same way, so as to connect at same level. So let your voice be passionate and melodious, let it convey your desire and affection for her. Your voice should be low, highly breathy and soothing as you maybe pay her a sexy compliment or tell her how bad you want her. 

 

Don't be a mute during foreplay or she'd think you're not feeling it and she'd do the same. Whenever a woman tells from the voice of her man that he is turned on and desirous of her, she immediately recreates an exact replica of the feeling and forms a bond. So talk dirty with a warm, intense and low voice. The more intense the feeling your voice carries, the more intensely she'd connect.

2. Kiss and tell: One famous scholar defined kissing as the synergy of two souls with their lips as the meeting point. 

Point of intersection

Boy and girl kissing passionately

Hence, a deeply passionate kiss'll make her soul gear towards yours and she'd feel very inclined to you and ready to let her guard and defenses down. Here's how to kiss well. Kissing shouldn't be limited to her lips alone.

Far from it. Draw a long and thorough trail on her entire body with your lips: kissing, caressing, biting, sucking every tiny area of her body to note what makes each part melt. 

3. Use your hands well: If you're always left puzzled about how and where to place your hands during a heated encounter, glue your eyes to the next set of words.
Start from the less intimate parts to the more intimate ones.

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 After or during the kiss, you could run your fingers through her hair and caress her face and ears. Then sensually tease her feet to her legs to her thighs to her ass to her inner thighs to her belly and navel to her ribs to her back and spine to her breasts and then her clitoris and entire vaginal area. Alternate between squeezing, rubbing, caressing, grabbing, spanking, scratching, tickling etc to know what works and where.

4. Use your mouth expertly: That little opening in your face where more pizza than can be weighed has gone through could be all you need to make your girl weep in pleasure. Use your mouth right. Your mouth may just be the deadliest weapon in your foreplay arsenal because it drives women mad to have a mouth tracing contours on their aroused skin.

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Guy kissing girl's belly

 The ecstasy is just too intense. So alternate between biting, kissing, licking, rubbing and sucking every tiny detail in her DNA and find what makes a given area lit, then keep doing it. 

5. Role play: This is a really hot and creative way to keep things fun, playful and kinky. You don't have to be a Bradd Pit to pull off great role playing. Just help yourself and your mate relax your defenses and nerves by deferring contact a little although you are already both as horny as a wild bull in heat who was injected with 5 liters of testosterone can make the excitement and anticipation quadruple. So, you could choose any roles you want like: mother/father and child, doctor and patient, teacher and student, buyer and seller etc are great ones.

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I honestly just got a fever

 The goal should be to see how far you both can behave and pretend you have no idea that the other is about to explode with pleasure. Try to sound and act as non-sexual as possible although you've only got dirty thoughts throughout your mind. 

6. Use unlikely locations: Who else thinks the bedroom is an overused location for sex?

Keep the excitement gushing by fore playing in areas that are less comfy and ideal for sex like the pool, the bathroom, the stairs, the porch, the garden, the kitchen, the balcony, the roof and let your imagination explode. 

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You could also make her excitement know no bounds by getting naughty in public places where you risk getting caught! The excitement of crime will make her crazily insane till she's nuts. So try reaching under her panties while you both seem like innocent and bored passengers on a bus, flight or train. You could also have a dark affair going on beneath the table while having lunch with other relatives, friends or business associates! Why not do some going down in a public toilet and try not to utter a sound etc.